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magick of separation Johanna Saturday, August 6, 2011

Question:

God bless, some 30 years ago I was in a relationship with a boy who loved me deeply and I loved him back. Everything was going on perfectly until he moved in his aunt's house. After having spent his first night in the village he came to me in the morning totally frightened and confused. He said he had heard voices calling his name and strange scary sounds all night. What's more, nobody knew his name there at the time.

Very soon our relationship deteriorated. We would find strange "sacks" on the treshold, I started havind terrible nightmares and so on. It is interesting to note that nothing happened if I spent the night there. Whenever I was leaving I met three ladies leaving the village at the same time. I remember that the cross (blessed) I was wearing scared them to death. I did not know anything about the black magick and paid no attention. The three ladies had a very dark complexion (unusual for the region) and were (I presume)30, 40 and 50 years of age.

In about 6 months my boyfriend completely changed, both physically and spiritually. He hurt (emotionaly) me all the time and then cried because he could not explain why. After I got fed up with everything I decided to leave him. He was devastated and begged me for years to come back to him. I did not do it even though I loved him and wanted to.

 I threw away and destroyed everything that reminded me of him and tried really hard to forget everything. Several years later he married a girl with the same colour type of skin, dark eyes reflecting no light. They married in church (as far as I know). Even after that he would call me and kept telling me he still loved me most. I was always very compassionate about his feelings but once he hung up I would forget that he even called. I have (almost) never talked about him with my friends.

As life went on I met some other men but never had a normal relationship. Everything would end up or never begin for no explicable reason. Some time ago I was looking for something in my room and I found all his letters in a drawer! I was in a complete shock. I could swear I destroyed them all. I have opened that drawer many times but never come across them. At first I thought something had happened to him but we are not in touch any more. I was upset, nervous, restless for days. Then I found an article on the net about something called the magick of separation which explains why and how all my later relationships went wrong. I lit a blessed candle and prayed delivrance prayers and now I feel much better but perplexed.

Is his marriage lawful before God and do we (does he) have the right to know the truth? Is it wise to talk to him? I hear that he is very often tormented by his wife and still talks to people that he still loves me. In fact, what can I do for both of us? Thank you in advance and may the Lord bless you protect you. Johanna



Question Answered by Bro. Ignatius Mary, OMSM(r)

Dear Johanna:

You did the right thing to leave this fella and to destroy everything of him. You should not have anything to do with him.

As for the letters, bless the letters with Holy Water, then burn them, then bury them in the ground.

I would advise looking at our Spiritual Warfare Catalog linked below. In particular I would suggest the prayer, Breaking Personal Curses and Spells, concerning what seem to be your "bad luck" in relationships. The so-called magick of separation, is a spell. Praying this prayer should break that. But, you need to have confidence in Christ over some spell. Christ is more powerful than any curse or spell. The greatest power of a curse or spell is the belief of the victim that the curse of spell will effect them. We must be careful we do not fall into a self-fulfilling prophecy, that is, to psyche ourselves out to believe in the effects. When that happens, for example in relationships, we can subtlety and unconscious sabotage the relationship ourselves with the help of any curse or spell. Thus, keep your eyes on Jesus.

This man is in your past and thus whatever he does in no longer your concern. You can pray for him. If he is away from God, the Hedge Prayer for Return of Wayward Persons is a good prayer to pray. There is also the Prayer for a Friend or Relative.

As to his marriage, I cannot answer, I do not know the circumstances of his marriage. That is no longer your concern anyway.

If he calls you again, you need to ask him to stop calling. It is completely inappropriate for him to call you to express love. That is a form of emotional adultery since he is married to someone else. If you indulge these calls, then you become an accomplice to his adulterous emotions.

You need to let go, and let this be in the past.

God Bless,
Bro. Ignatius Mary


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