A quick clarifier: My son was not Catholic. He lived a sin-filled life, but he was always searching for something. He went with me to the adoration chapel because he wanted to. We weren't in there more then 30 seconds when he went into a trance like condition. Later, he told me that Jesus spoke to him, and told him that he had been looking for him in all the wrong places. He said that he saw a man wearing armor with a red sash holding a sword and yelling passionately. He said that he had a conversation with Jesus and when Jesus spoke, the monstrance would rise up and lean toward him as if it were speaking to him, and lean away when my son replied. My son said that Jesus told him he needed to make a choice. That is when he fell on his knees and gave his life to Jesus and the Catholic Church. He said that when he did that, Jesus told him that he would do great things, but that he had better be ready, and that his life would not be easy.
Since that time, we have the dreams and some physical manifestations. He is now under direct spiritual instruction at our parish, but father will not hear his confession until he has been instructed. Father believes that Jesus is not done speaking to my son, and has instructed my son to make a habit of returning to the adoration chapel. My son's life has radically changed, as you would expect, and we are still trying to come to grips with what happened. I, my son, and my family have been shown a huge blessing for which I am eternally greatful.