Hello Brother Ignatius Mary, hope you're doing very well.

I wrote you back in October and November of 2008. Thank yo for your responses.

As to my parents being secret witches, I don't believe so, but my mother especially was involved in "santeria", as you probably know, a mixture of african and roman catholic religions. Also I have been told how my paternal grandmother as a newlywed was left a brown paper bag by her front door (which was believed to contain santeria items), and after opening the said paper bag, thereafter for the rest of her life would become rather "crazy" acting crazily once a month during her menstraul cycle. After her menopause, she became completely normal. wonder if you ever heard anything like this?

Also then one Christmas my parents gave my sister and myself a ouji board, which we promptly played and the thing answered us it was named "Saul". We "played" it several times. It was shortly after this and my mother giving me the strange cup of coffee via my dad that I totally changed as a young person, rebelling, not going to church, some sexual aberrations, as I recall.

Also my paternal grandfather was a freemason. In my family there have been several known homosexuals, and I was wondering if all these rotten actions by my ancestors and then by myself too, might bring some sort of curse? Does it not say in the Bible, God punishes to the third and fourth generation of those who oppose His loving commandments?

Now I am also feeling very disheartened and upset myself as one of my own children seems to be very confused of her gender and is following the current popular fad of "gay" being "cool" and just another type of love. Though I know I have contributed to her confusion because of provoking a break up between her Dad and myself, I do not want her to go deeply into that "life" as I know how terrible, difficult to escape later on it might be. Any help offered by you, I thank you very much.

Sincerely, RosaMaria